Think twice , think twice. Is it really worth risking your marriage purely for sex ? After all marriage is an age old time tested institution of the civilized world.
Infidelity is perhaps as old as marriage. It’s nothing new. There is a huge trend of this growing tribe of cheating spouses.
The Infidelity Facts website states that up to 41 per cent of spouses cheat and do it guilt-free as long as they’re meeting “responsibilities” in the domestic space.
Psychiatrist believes males by nature are polygamous. Often, it’s marital disharmony that leads to extra-marital affairs. In this era of liberal media opposite sex, such as colleagues, bring people closer emotionally and sexually.
No Guilt In Social Culture !
For some, an affair provides something lacking in their own marriage. This could be reason for sex or mental stimulation. I don’t feel guilty.
For Maya, it’s just about sex, “I love my husband deeply and can’t dream of any other man in my life. Unfortunately, he has a low libido and I don’t want to lead the life of a nun; I am young and feel ‘Sex is wilder and more exciting with a stranger”.
Mrs and Mr Shah were the most perfect couple; they made the most brilliant hosts at parties and seemed inseparable. Later, the husband was seen romancing Nirali in another city. He reasoned, “I love my wife, but she is a bit bored. My wife has no reason to complain. I give her all that a loving husband would. But my girlfriend is my ideal companion and lover. And, one can’t marry everyone they love, right?”
Is It Worth It ?
Some Say, “To bring back the spark in the marriage, an affair can act as a catalyst. Variety is the spice of life.”
These days individuals have to learn the art of backing off before things become too hot to handle. Ultimately it’s the families you want to go home to ! As back home we have our future our beloved children. Think Twice.